“How dare you talk to her, you’re my friend!” She screeched.
“What do you mean?” I said feeling utterly confused.
“You’re my friend only! It’s stupid that you’re talking to other people. So stupid!”
I gaped, “Are you for real?” I moved closer and lowered my voice glancing around the school hallway hoping that no one had heard her. “Why is it stupid for me to have other friends?”
She stepped closer and narrowed her small beady eyes, “Because you’re my friend and no one else should be. You’re not allowed to have other friends! Do you understand?”
“I’m not allowed?” I laughed; sure that she was teasing me.
But she didn’t smile. Her thin lips pursed.
“You’re crazy!” I moved back and noticed for the first time how much like a snake her dark eyes were.
How had they become friends anyway? Had she always been this creepy?
I took a deep breath, “I will have as many friends as I want, so deal with it!”
“You’ll be sorry.” She seethed.
I watched her storm away and knew that she meant every single word.
A shiver ran down my spine.
This was going to be a hard school year.
Continue reading “When Friendship Turns Poisonous”
“I am not here to make friends ”
That was my go-to line when I first moved to Australia in 2015 when my best friend would ask me why I didn’t want to socialize with anybody at Uni or anywhere else. I had made it very clear to her that I came to Australia just to study and then return to my home country Malawi to settle down.
3 years of studying certainly brought that statement to life; I went to classes, the library, and then home. My routine never deviated from this; I had made up my mind that making friends was just not what I was here to do.
This statement was like a shield around my tiny, fractured heart, it was the layer of protection I needed to tell other people and myself that I was “okay” on my own. Beneath that protective layer of words, was a scared little girl. A girl who had trusted and been let down. A girl who had opened up and had the door slammed in her face.
Continue reading “Try Again”
I once thought that all love was true
Innocent, gentle and pure.
But I only thought this before I met you;
Now, I’m not so sure.
You took my vulnerable heart in your hands
Continue reading “Glue”
And even though I expected love,
The way that you treated me ruined my plans
And then I remembered God above.
“Do not covet thy neighbour (10th Commandment).”
Coveting is one of the major sources of dissatisfaction. Whether it may be material things or physical features of others. The Lord explicitly doesn’t want us to be jealous of our neighbour. That’s why he wrote the command for us to remember.
Social media has become such a large part of our lives over the last few years. It has opened us up to see the world from different lenses, but also made us see ourselves in clouded lenses.
It has become the destruction of many young girl’s body images.
Continue reading “Unfollow Those You Can’t Really Follow”
It is so easy for us to get agitated when someone says something out of line. But when someone makes it personal and says something against our body, (something we can’t change). I would not blame you if you wanted to smack them out. Unfortunately, violence should not be our first action. There are ways to deal with body-shaming other than fighting someone because then you are no better than them.
Hurt People Hurt People
Many people that attack others normally have something they themselves are going through. That’s why it is highly advised that you don’t return the hate they are giving you for you don’t know their situation. It’s okay to be the bigger person. As people of faith, we should always show love to others (Matthew 22:39) even though they are the ones persecuting us.
Continue reading “How To Deal With Body Shaming”
Who am I?
People say who is she?
In this world of change
I stumble blindly
I keep trying to find myself
But something I can’t do
Is ignore the worlds rules
That say you can’t be you
Continue reading “Who Am I?”
Name: Michaela Mulenga
Age: 15 years old.
On Saturday the 6th of June 2020, I attended the ‘Black Lives Matter’ and ‘Justice for Aboriginal Deaths in Custody’ protest in Melbourne with a few of my friends from my youth ministry, PlanetBoom.
1.Why did you attend the protests?
I attended the protest because I am just so sick of the things that are happening as a result of systematic racism in the United States, Australia and other countries all around the world. I am really passionate about the issues surrounding George Floyd and I wanted to be apart of something that could change the way the world works.
Continue reading “My First Protest – Black Lives Matter”
1 cup rice porridge or oats
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2 cups milk of choice
5 grapes / cut in quarters
2 strawberries / diced
6-10 blueberries / cut in half
Paw paw or Mango (optional)
1 Tbsp Dried cranberries (optional)
½ tsp shea seeds
½ tsp sunflower seeds
½ flax seeds
1 Tbsp honey
‘Create whole body positivity one attribute at a time…’
A good way to find happiness in your own skin is to list things that
you love about yourself. Writing positive affirmations will hopefully boost
your self-esteem and help you get to a level of positive thinking about your
We have all heard someone talk about writing positive affirmations on
your mirror is good for you.
However, before we can deal with the greatness that’s in us we need to deal with the negativity that clouds us.
Continue reading “Positive Mindset = Positive Outlook”
After recent speculation over the last few months about what will happen to the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, it has finally been confirmed that the show will be cancelled for 2019.
Continue reading “Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show Cancelled Finally…”